In the future, everyone will leave a legacy that lasts fifteen generations.
Convivvium is a vessel for reweaving emotional trust and collective vision across generations. Its days are shaped by three core currents:
- Nourishment of Voice & Memory
The rhythm of Convivvium speaks in the dialect of deep care. Here, language is more than words—it’s the transmission of ancestry, of felt truth, of belonging. Every meal, every teaching, every silence carries the imprint of lineage. - Intimacy as Initiation
Nothing here stays surface-level. Encounters become mirrors. Conversations become thresholds. This is a place where facades dissolve and alchemy begins—not through force, but through courageous presence. - Weaving a New Myth of Community
We come to remember what it feels like to be among kin. Structure holds us just enough. Mystery moves through us. We are not networking—we are building a vessel that can hold the dream of a future worth living.
Beneath it all, a deeper fire pulses:
- Desire as Sacred Fuel
We do not come to tame our hunger—we come to reclaim it. The longing for truth, for intimacy, for meaning—these are not distractions. They are compasses. We honor the depth of feeling as a gateway to shared power and liberation. - Power Without Domination
We are here to transmute old patterns. To lead not by hierarchy, but by frequency. Not through control, but through integrity. Together, we model a new kind of influence—reliable, real, relational. We will begin composting the addiction to 15 minutes of influencer fame and begin to envision the legacy our soul family came here to build. - The Courage to Exist Fully
Even in silence. Even when no one is watching. We call forth the warrior who knows when to stand alone—not in protest, but in devotion. This is how we heal the exiled parts of ourselves and one another. By staying present. By staying true.
Tuesday 02
4 pm Registration opens
- Somatics to shake off the airport vibes: ground the senses in the smell/touch/taste
6:30 pm Dinner
7:30-9 pm Earth Elemental Dance w/ Sound Healing
Wednesday 03
The Voice That Nourishes
Our first full day opens the channel between heart and voice, memory and message. This is a day for stories that feed something deeper—for words that carry lineage, care, and the courage to feel.
Conversation stretches beyond small talk into communion. What is spoken becomes a form of shelter. Language softens and sanctifies. We remember that the right words, in the right rhythm, can regrow lost roots.
The following are ideas for the types of activities that may fit. We will invite everyone in as a participant and also to volunteer to lead activities. Depending on how many people we have in attendance we will either be single or multi-track.
- “Letters to the Future” – Everyone writes a short letter to a future descendant (literal or symbolic). Then, pair up and read each other’s letter aloud—letting someone else speak your hopes into the field. It’s Cancer care through 3rd house exchange. – inspiration from Derek In and Of Itself
- 🗣️ Voice of the Future: Family Constellation People takes on the role of their descendant 15 generations from now. Other listen, then ask questions as themselves today.
- 🥣 The Nourishing Word What must survive 15 generations. These are collected in silence and written on paper leaves that form a “legacy tree” in the center of the space.
- Archetype Tag: Walk the space. When you see someone who feels familiar, tag them and name the vibe: “Lost prophet.” “Reformed Oracle.” “Joy mechanic.” Give people name tags and sharpies. When they figure out someone’s archetype they write it down and stick it on their back so the person can’t see it until an appointed hour when it’s time to read them.
- The Priestess Has WiFi — a satirical ceremony to burn the bullshit
6 pm Dinner
8 pm Voice of the Waters in the Jhanna Hall
Thursday 04
The Messy Middle
Where the real work begins. This is the part no one glamorizes.
The clearing.
The crumbling.
The ache of what’s been carried too long.
This day is not curated. It’s not inspiring. It’s not a performance of healing.
It’s the moment the soul family remembers why we came—
To look at what most people turn away from.
To name what was lost.
To feel what never got to be grieved.
We carry wounds that weren’t just personal.
They were systemic, tactical, generational.
We weren’t just silenced—we were shattered.
Made into warnings.
Taught to disappear before we could be hunted again.
So now?
Even reunion can feel dangerous.
Even love can feel like a setup.
Today is for telling the truth about that.
We move through fog.
We let old protections surface.
We watch roles fall apart in real time.
This isn’t breakdown—it’s breakthrough camouflage.
This is the day we stop pretending we’re fine
and remember what it means to be free.
Together, we sit in the ruins of old myths
and choose to build something braver.
Not polished. Not perfect.
Just real enough to hold us.
Ideas
- 🜃 Rituals of Remembrance – Acknowledging what was lost, naming the ancestors who were silenced, and honoring the price that was paid to keep this flame alive.
- 🜁 Pacts of Mutual Visibility – Not just being seen, but witnessing others in their becoming, without projection or competition.
- 🜂 Power Retrieval Ceremonies – Returning the fragments of voice, clarity, and presence that were hidden or split off for survival.
- 🜄 Collective Grieving – Mourning not only the personal losses but the world that was never built because you were gone.
- ☿ Mythic Rewriting – Replacing the old soul contract of sacrifice with one of legacy: Not this time. We stay. We build. We protect each other now.
3 pm Temescal traditional sweatlodge and song
6 pm Dinner
8 pm Slow Dance
Friday 05
The Deep Mirror
After the clearing, we face what’s left. Each other.
Thursday stripped the stories.
Now, there’s nothing left to hide behind.
Friday is where the relational field reorganizes.
Where the charge becomes visible.
Where we look across the space and realize:
You saw me fall apart. You didn’t leave.
The masks don’t fit anymore.
The roles don’t hold.
So now what?
This is the day attraction becomes signal, not performance.
Discomfort becomes a compass.
Words become portals.
We speak from deeper places now.
From under the surface.
From the wound that learned how to love without bargaining for safety.
Conversations don’t stay casual—they shift things.
Old contracts fall away.
New ones form in silence, eye contact, the way someone stays just one breath longer than expected.
This is the mirror.
Not the one that falsely flatters to gain approval.
The one that sees.
And if we let it—
It turns truth into trust.
And trust into something sacred.
Ideas
- Relational Shadow Mapping: Guided partner exercise to gently name projections, unmet needs, and hidden desires—revealing the unconscious contracts we carry into relationship.
- Scorpio Roundtable: Desire & Power: Curated discussion on taboo topics—money, sex, betrayal, devotion. Held as sacred inquiry, not debate.
- Bond Beyond Time: A ritual for calling in and honoring soul agreements—those we’ve kept, those we’ve broken, and those we now choose to rewrite.
- Unwritten Agreements Group brainstorm, then small groups. Participants name unspoken social contracts they carry into spaces like this. Then rewrite them intentionally together.
- Venom & Medicine Share one part of you that’s been misunderstood as venom—and how it became medicine.